True story: The ex and I were in the borg about a year, so we had a gathering in
our home. We had plan to have a fake argument in the present of the friends and
then reveal this was planned and have a discussion how would you handle this with
new ones. We(wife and I) were in the kitchen and we preceded with our plan and
made sure the friends could here us from the kitchen. We could here and it got very quiet
in the in the living room.LOL
One of the elders present snatched his hat, coat and wife and was heading for the door.
As he was heading for the door he was heard mumbling, they need to keep that stuff behind
close doors, not the place for this. So I came out to explain to him it this was all a plan to have
a discussion. That same elder was caught years later for having an affair and the affair had
been going on for years.